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Activities and Play
Activities and Play
Play is how children explore, practise skills, solve problems, build confidence and understand the world around them.
Children do not need expensive activities or a large collection of toys. Simple, repeated play with time, attention and suitable materials is often more valuable.
This UK guide covers indoor and outdoor activities, low-cost ideas, rainy-day play, screen balance, community activities, inclusive play, safety and choosing useful preloved toys.
How to Use This Guide
This page offers general play ideas and links to UK activity and safety information. It is not a developmental programme, medical recommendation or substitute for individual advice about a child’s disability, health, therapy or supervision needs.
Choose activities that suit the child’s age, ability, interests, environment and manufacturer instructions.
Additional Trusted UK Activity and Safety Links
- NHS physical activity guidance for children under five
- NHS physical activity guidance for ages 5 to 18
- NSPCC online-safety guidance
- Child Accident Prevention Trust button-battery guidance
- Child Accident Prevention Trust magnet guidance
- UK Product Safety Alerts, Reports and Recalls
Official UK Play and Activity Guidance
Use the NHS play and learning guidance for babies and young children for practical developmental ideas.
For movement recommendations, see the NHS physical activity guidance for children under five and the NHS activity guidance for children and young people aged 5 to 18.
Play and Everyday Learning
The NHS provides play and activity ideas that support movement, communication, attention and interaction. Play experiences differ between children, and no specific toy or activity guarantees a developmental outcome.
Offer a varied mix of movement, conversation, books, creative activities, outdoor time and child-led play. Adapt the environment where a child has an additional need and follow any individual professional advice.
Follow the Child’s Interests
Children often learn best when they are interested and involved.
Watch what the child repeatedly chooses, then build on it with:
- New words
- Different materials
- Simple questions
- Related books
- Outdoor experiences
Keep Activities Age-Appropriate
Choose activities based on:
- Age
- Development
- Attention span
- Physical ability
- Safety
- Interests
A simple activity can be made easier or harder by changing the materials or level of adult support.
Indoor Play Ideas
Useful indoor activities include:
- Building blocks
- Drawing and colouring
- Simple puzzles
- Board books and stories
- Pretend play
- Music and dancing
- Posting and sorting games
- Soft-ball play
Simple Household Play
Safe household items can support play, including:
- Cardboard boxes
- Wooden spoons
- Plastic bowls
- Clean containers
- Fabric scraps
- Paper tubes
Check for sharp edges, small parts, staples and unsuitable materials.
Creative Play
Creative activities may include:
- Crayons
- Paint
- Chalk
- Collage
- Play dough
- Sticker pictures
- Simple craft kits
Use washable, age-appropriate products and supervise closely.
Messy Play
Messy play can support:
- Sensory exploration
- Fine motor skills
- Language
- Confidence with textures
- Creativity
Possible materials include:
- Water
- Sand
- Foam
- Cooked pasta
- Oats
- Child-safe paint
Reduce Mess Without Removing the Fun
Try:
- A wipe-clean mat
- An old shirt or apron
- A tray with raised edges
- Playing in the bath before washing
- Outdoor messy play
Pretend Play
Pretend play supports imagination, language and social understanding.
Ideas include:
- Shops
- Kitchens
- Doctors
- Schools
- Cars and garages
- Baby dolls
- Dressing up
Construction Play
Building activities support:
- Planning
- Balance
- Spatial awareness
- Problem-solving
- Persistence
Use blocks, magnetic tiles, large bricks or recycled boxes, checking age suitability and small-part risks.
Reading and Storytelling
Reading supports:
- Vocabulary
- Listening
- Imagination
- Emotional understanding
- General knowledge
Let children:
- Choose books
- Turn pages
- Repeat favourite stories
- Talk about pictures
- Make up endings
Music and Movement
Ideas include:
- Singing action songs
- Dancing
- Clapping rhythms
- Homemade shakers
- Freeze dance
- Marching games
Outdoor Play
Outdoor play can support:
- Strength
- Balance
- Coordination
- Confidence
- Observation
- Wellbeing
Simple Outdoor Activities
Try:
- Walking
- Running
- Ball games
- Balance bikes
- Scooters
- Nature collecting
- Chalk drawing
- Puddle jumping
Use Local Parks
Before using play equipment, check:
- Age suitability
- Wet or damaged surfaces
- Broken equipment
- Sharp edges
- Nearby roads or water
Nature Activities
Low-cost ideas include:
- Leaf collecting
- Cloud watching
- Listening for birds
- Looking for insects
- Making nature pictures
- Planting seeds
Teach children not to touch unknown plants, fungi or wildlife without adult guidance.
Rainy-Day Activities
UK weather often requires flexible plans.
Rainy-day ideas include:
- Indoor obstacle courses
- Blanket dens
- Baking
- Library visits
- Crafts
- Treasure hunts
- Dance sessions
- Simple science activities
Indoor Obstacle Courses
Use safe items such as:
- Cushions
- Masking-tape lines
- Cardboard tunnels
- Soft stepping points
Keep the area clear of hard furniture and slipping hazards.
Low-Cost Activities
Many useful activities are free or inexpensive.
Try:
- Libraries
- Local parks
- Free museum sessions
- Community events
- Family hubs
- Children’s centres
- Nature trails
- Home craft materials
Use the GOV.UK local library finder to locate your council library service and check free activities.
Use Your Local Library
Libraries may offer:
- Free book borrowing
- Rhyme time
- Story sessions
- Summer reading schemes
- Craft activities
- Homework support
Check your local council library service.
Community Activities
Local activities may include:
- Parent and toddler groups
- Stay-and-play sessions
- Sports sessions
- Music groups
- Swimming
- Forest school activities
- Holiday clubs
Check What Is Included in the Price
Before booking, ask about:
- Registration fees
- Equipment
- Uniform
- Trial sessions
- Cancellation rules
- Sibling discounts
Activities at Home
Children do not need to be taken out every day.
Home play can include:
- Helping with cooking
- Sorting laundry
- Watering plants
- Building dens
- Making cards
- Playing shops
Everyday Tasks Can Be Playful
Children can practise:
- Counting socks
- Matching lids
- Sorting colours
- Measuring ingredients
- Naming vegetables
Independent Play
Independent play develops gradually.
Support it by:
- Starting nearby
- Offering a small choice of toys
- Using familiar activities
- Increasing time slowly
- Avoiding constant interruption
Playing Together
Adult attention can make simple play more valuable.
Try:
- Following the child’s lead
- Commenting rather than directing
- Taking turns
- Using open questions
- Stopping before the child becomes overtired
Sibling Play
Siblings may need help with:
- Sharing space
- Taking turns
- Protecting special belongings
- Choosing age-safe activities
- Managing conflict
Do Not Expect Constant Sharing
Children can have:
- Shared toys
- Personal toys
- Turn-taking toys
Clear rules can reduce conflict.
Inclusive Play
Activities may need adapting for children with:
- Mobility differences
- Hearing loss
- Visual impairment
- Sensory needs
- Communication differences
- Learning disabilities
Adapt the Activity, Not the Child
Possible adaptations include:
- Larger pieces
- Visual instructions
- Quieter spaces
- Shorter activities
- Seated options
- Extra processing time
For practical online-safety help, use the NSPCC online-safety guidance and age ratings provided by the relevant platform or classification body.
Screen Time
No single page can decide the right screen routine for every child and family.
Use age-appropriate content and try not to let screens routinely replace sleep, active play, meals, conversation, outdoor time or family interaction.
Review privacy, chat, advertising and spending settings. Use the NSPCC online-safety guidance.
Choose Screen Content Carefully
Consider:
- Age rating
- Advertising
- In-app purchases
- Autoplay
- Chat features
- Whether an adult can join in
Create Predictable Screen Rules
Rules may include:
- Screen-free meals
- No devices in bedrooms overnight
- Clear finishing times
- Adult approval before downloads
- Age-appropriate content only
Activity Overload
Too many organised activities can create:
- Tiredness
- Travel stress
- Reduced free play
- Financial pressure
- Family conflict
Children need unstructured time as well as organised clubs.
Choose Activities Carefully
Before committing, consider:
- Child’s interest
- Travel
- Cost
- Schedule
- Age suitability
- Whether a trial session is available
Safety During Play
Check for:
- Small parts
- Sharp edges
- Long cords
- Loose batteries
- Broken seams
- Unstable furniture
- Unsafe climbing
Button Batteries and Magnets
Remove a toy from use if a button-battery compartment is insecure or a magnet is loose, missing or exposed.
If a child may have swallowed a button battery or high-powered magnet, go straight to A&E or call 999 for an ambulance. Do not wait for symptoms.
Use current button-battery and magnet-safety guidance.
Water Play Safety
Never leave a child unattended near water.
This includes:
- Baths
- Paddling pools
- Buckets
- Ponds
- Water tables
Wheeled Toys
For bikes and scooters, check:
- Correct size
- Brakes
- Wheel condition
- Handlebar security
- Helmet fit
- Safe riding area
Before using a second-hand toy or activity product, check the official UK Product Safety Alerts, Reports and Recalls database.
Buying Toys Preloved
Preloved toys can offer good value, particularly when children move quickly between interests and developmental stages.
Suitable items may include:
- Books
- Blocks
- Puzzles
- Role-play toys
- Ride-ons
- Outdoor toys
- Craft storage
Check Preloved Toys Carefully
Before buying, check:
- Age suitability
- Small parts
- Missing pieces
- Battery compartments
- Cracks
- Broken mechanisms
- Recall status
- Cleanliness
Do Not Overbuy Toys
Too many toys can make it harder for children to focus.
Try:
- Rotating toys
- Keeping a smaller selection visible
- Storing similar toys together
- Passing on outgrown items
Activities and Play Items on Kidora
Kidora is a UK-only marketplace where parents can buy and sell new and preloved baby and children’s items.
Families may find books, puzzles, blocks, role-play toys, bikes, scooters, outdoor toys and craft items. Check age warnings, condition, completeness, batteries, magnets, cords, personal data and official recalls before use.
Sellers pay no selling fees and keep 100% of the item sale price. Buyers pay a mandatory Buyer Protection fee on paid purchases, shown before checkout.
Suitable items can be listed at £0 as FREE rather than being thrown away, helping another family. FREE listings are collection-only and do not include a Buyer Protection fee.
Kidora does not certify toys as safe, therapeutic or developmentally suitable.
An Activities and Play Checklist
- Follow the child’s interests
- Use simple materials
- Include indoor and outdoor play
- Read and talk every day
- Allow independent play
- Use low-cost community resources
- Keep screens balanced
- Avoid overscheduling
- Check toys and equipment regularly
- Pass on outgrown items
Frequently Asked Questions
Do children need expensive toys?
No. Books, blocks, household materials, outdoor play and adult interaction can support a wide range of skills.
What can we do on a rainy day?
Try indoor obstacle courses, crafts, baking, library visits, dancing, dens or treasure hunts.
How can I encourage independent play?
Begin nearby with a familiar activity, offer a small choice and increase independent time gradually.
How many organised activities should a child do?
There is no fixed number. Balance the child’s interest with cost, travel, rest, family time and unstructured play.
Can toys be bought preloved?
Yes. Check age suitability, condition, missing parts, batteries, cleanliness and recall status before use.