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Activities and Play

Activities and Play

Play is how children explore, practise skills, solve problems, build confidence and understand the world around them.

Children do not need expensive activities or a large collection of toys. Simple, repeated play with time, attention and suitable materials is often more valuable.

This UK guide covers indoor and outdoor activities, low-cost ideas, rainy-day play, screen balance, community activities, inclusive play, safety and choosing useful preloved toys.

How to Use This Guide

This page offers general play ideas and links to UK activity and safety information. It is not a developmental programme, medical recommendation or substitute for individual advice about a child’s disability, health, therapy or supervision needs.

Choose activities that suit the child’s age, ability, interests, environment and manufacturer instructions.

Additional Trusted UK Activity and Safety Links

Official UK Play and Activity Guidance

Use the NHS play and learning guidance for babies and young children for practical developmental ideas.

For movement recommendations, see the NHS physical activity guidance for children under five and the NHS activity guidance for children and young people aged 5 to 18.

Play and Everyday Learning

The NHS provides play and activity ideas that support movement, communication, attention and interaction. Play experiences differ between children, and no specific toy or activity guarantees a developmental outcome.

Offer a varied mix of movement, conversation, books, creative activities, outdoor time and child-led play. Adapt the environment where a child has an additional need and follow any individual professional advice.

Follow the Child’s Interests

Children often learn best when they are interested and involved.

Watch what the child repeatedly chooses, then build on it with:

  • New words
  • Different materials
  • Simple questions
  • Related books
  • Outdoor experiences

Keep Activities Age-Appropriate

Choose activities based on:

  • Age
  • Development
  • Attention span
  • Physical ability
  • Safety
  • Interests

A simple activity can be made easier or harder by changing the materials or level of adult support.

Indoor Play Ideas

Useful indoor activities include:

  • Building blocks
  • Drawing and colouring
  • Simple puzzles
  • Board books and stories
  • Pretend play
  • Music and dancing
  • Posting and sorting games
  • Soft-ball play

Simple Household Play

Safe household items can support play, including:

  • Cardboard boxes
  • Wooden spoons
  • Plastic bowls
  • Clean containers
  • Fabric scraps
  • Paper tubes

Check for sharp edges, small parts, staples and unsuitable materials.

Creative Play

Creative activities may include:

  • Crayons
  • Paint
  • Chalk
  • Collage
  • Play dough
  • Sticker pictures
  • Simple craft kits

Use washable, age-appropriate products and supervise closely.

Messy Play

Messy play can support:

  • Sensory exploration
  • Fine motor skills
  • Language
  • Confidence with textures
  • Creativity

Possible materials include:

  • Water
  • Sand
  • Foam
  • Cooked pasta
  • Oats
  • Child-safe paint

Reduce Mess Without Removing the Fun

Try:

  • A wipe-clean mat
  • An old shirt or apron
  • A tray with raised edges
  • Playing in the bath before washing
  • Outdoor messy play

Pretend Play

Pretend play supports imagination, language and social understanding.

Ideas include:

  • Shops
  • Kitchens
  • Doctors
  • Schools
  • Cars and garages
  • Baby dolls
  • Dressing up

Construction Play

Building activities support:

  • Planning
  • Balance
  • Spatial awareness
  • Problem-solving
  • Persistence

Use blocks, magnetic tiles, large bricks or recycled boxes, checking age suitability and small-part risks.

Reading and Storytelling

Reading supports:

  • Vocabulary
  • Listening
  • Imagination
  • Emotional understanding
  • General knowledge

Let children:

  • Choose books
  • Turn pages
  • Repeat favourite stories
  • Talk about pictures
  • Make up endings

Music and Movement

Ideas include:

  • Singing action songs
  • Dancing
  • Clapping rhythms
  • Homemade shakers
  • Freeze dance
  • Marching games

Outdoor Play

Outdoor play can support:

  • Strength
  • Balance
  • Coordination
  • Confidence
  • Observation
  • Wellbeing

Simple Outdoor Activities

Try:

  • Walking
  • Running
  • Ball games
  • Balance bikes
  • Scooters
  • Nature collecting
  • Chalk drawing
  • Puddle jumping

Use Local Parks

Before using play equipment, check:

  • Age suitability
  • Wet or damaged surfaces
  • Broken equipment
  • Sharp edges
  • Nearby roads or water

Nature Activities

Low-cost ideas include:

  • Leaf collecting
  • Cloud watching
  • Listening for birds
  • Looking for insects
  • Making nature pictures
  • Planting seeds

Teach children not to touch unknown plants, fungi or wildlife without adult guidance.

Rainy-Day Activities

UK weather often requires flexible plans.

Rainy-day ideas include:

  • Indoor obstacle courses
  • Blanket dens
  • Baking
  • Library visits
  • Crafts
  • Treasure hunts
  • Dance sessions
  • Simple science activities

Indoor Obstacle Courses

Use safe items such as:

  • Cushions
  • Masking-tape lines
  • Cardboard tunnels
  • Soft stepping points

Keep the area clear of hard furniture and slipping hazards.

Low-Cost Activities

Many useful activities are free or inexpensive.

Try:

  • Libraries
  • Local parks
  • Free museum sessions
  • Community events
  • Family hubs
  • Children’s centres
  • Nature trails
  • Home craft materials

Use the GOV.UK local library finder to locate your council library service and check free activities.

Use Your Local Library

Libraries may offer:

  • Free book borrowing
  • Rhyme time
  • Story sessions
  • Summer reading schemes
  • Craft activities
  • Homework support

Check your local council library service.

Community Activities

Local activities may include:

  • Parent and toddler groups
  • Stay-and-play sessions
  • Sports sessions
  • Music groups
  • Swimming
  • Forest school activities
  • Holiday clubs

Check What Is Included in the Price

Before booking, ask about:

  • Registration fees
  • Equipment
  • Uniform
  • Trial sessions
  • Cancellation rules
  • Sibling discounts

Activities at Home

Children do not need to be taken out every day.

Home play can include:

  • Helping with cooking
  • Sorting laundry
  • Watering plants
  • Building dens
  • Making cards
  • Playing shops

Everyday Tasks Can Be Playful

Children can practise:

  • Counting socks
  • Matching lids
  • Sorting colours
  • Measuring ingredients
  • Naming vegetables

Independent Play

Independent play develops gradually.

Support it by:

  • Starting nearby
  • Offering a small choice of toys
  • Using familiar activities
  • Increasing time slowly
  • Avoiding constant interruption

Playing Together

Adult attention can make simple play more valuable.

Try:

  • Following the child’s lead
  • Commenting rather than directing
  • Taking turns
  • Using open questions
  • Stopping before the child becomes overtired

Sibling Play

Siblings may need help with:

  • Sharing space
  • Taking turns
  • Protecting special belongings
  • Choosing age-safe activities
  • Managing conflict

Do Not Expect Constant Sharing

Children can have:

  • Shared toys
  • Personal toys
  • Turn-taking toys

Clear rules can reduce conflict.

Inclusive Play

Activities may need adapting for children with:

  • Mobility differences
  • Hearing loss
  • Visual impairment
  • Sensory needs
  • Communication differences
  • Learning disabilities

Adapt the Activity, Not the Child

Possible adaptations include:

  • Larger pieces
  • Visual instructions
  • Quieter spaces
  • Shorter activities
  • Seated options
  • Extra processing time

For practical online-safety help, use the NSPCC online-safety guidance and age ratings provided by the relevant platform or classification body.

Screen Time

No single page can decide the right screen routine for every child and family.

Use age-appropriate content and try not to let screens routinely replace sleep, active play, meals, conversation, outdoor time or family interaction.

Review privacy, chat, advertising and spending settings. Use the NSPCC online-safety guidance.

Choose Screen Content Carefully

Consider:

  • Age rating
  • Advertising
  • In-app purchases
  • Autoplay
  • Chat features
  • Whether an adult can join in

Create Predictable Screen Rules

Rules may include:

  • Screen-free meals
  • No devices in bedrooms overnight
  • Clear finishing times
  • Adult approval before downloads
  • Age-appropriate content only

Activity Overload

Too many organised activities can create:

  • Tiredness
  • Travel stress
  • Reduced free play
  • Financial pressure
  • Family conflict

Children need unstructured time as well as organised clubs.

Choose Activities Carefully

Before committing, consider:

  • Child’s interest
  • Travel
  • Cost
  • Schedule
  • Age suitability
  • Whether a trial session is available

Safety During Play

Check for:

  • Small parts
  • Sharp edges
  • Long cords
  • Loose batteries
  • Broken seams
  • Unstable furniture
  • Unsafe climbing

Button Batteries and Magnets

Remove a toy from use if a button-battery compartment is insecure or a magnet is loose, missing or exposed.

If a child may have swallowed a button battery or high-powered magnet, go straight to A&E or call 999 for an ambulance. Do not wait for symptoms.

Use current button-battery and magnet-safety guidance.

Water Play Safety

Never leave a child unattended near water.

This includes:

  • Baths
  • Paddling pools
  • Buckets
  • Ponds
  • Water tables

Wheeled Toys

For bikes and scooters, check:

  • Correct size
  • Brakes
  • Wheel condition
  • Handlebar security
  • Helmet fit
  • Safe riding area

Before using a second-hand toy or activity product, check the official UK Product Safety Alerts, Reports and Recalls database.

Buying Toys Preloved

Preloved toys can offer good value, particularly when children move quickly between interests and developmental stages.

Suitable items may include:

  • Books
  • Blocks
  • Puzzles
  • Role-play toys
  • Ride-ons
  • Outdoor toys
  • Craft storage

Check Preloved Toys Carefully

Before buying, check:

  • Age suitability
  • Small parts
  • Missing pieces
  • Battery compartments
  • Cracks
  • Broken mechanisms
  • Recall status
  • Cleanliness

Do Not Overbuy Toys

Too many toys can make it harder for children to focus.

Try:

  • Rotating toys
  • Keeping a smaller selection visible
  • Storing similar toys together
  • Passing on outgrown items

Activities and Play Items on Kidora

Kidora is a UK-only marketplace where parents can buy and sell new and preloved baby and children’s items.

Families may find books, puzzles, blocks, role-play toys, bikes, scooters, outdoor toys and craft items. Check age warnings, condition, completeness, batteries, magnets, cords, personal data and official recalls before use.

Sellers pay no selling fees and keep 100% of the item sale price. Buyers pay a mandatory Buyer Protection fee on paid purchases, shown before checkout.

Suitable items can be listed at £0 as FREE rather than being thrown away, helping another family. FREE listings are collection-only and do not include a Buyer Protection fee.

Kidora does not certify toys as safe, therapeutic or developmentally suitable.

An Activities and Play Checklist

  • Follow the child’s interests
  • Use simple materials
  • Include indoor and outdoor play
  • Read and talk every day
  • Allow independent play
  • Use low-cost community resources
  • Keep screens balanced
  • Avoid overscheduling
  • Check toys and equipment regularly
  • Pass on outgrown items

Frequently Asked Questions

Do children need expensive toys?

No. Books, blocks, household materials, outdoor play and adult interaction can support a wide range of skills.

What can we do on a rainy day?

Try indoor obstacle courses, crafts, baking, library visits, dancing, dens or treasure hunts.

How can I encourage independent play?

Begin nearby with a familiar activity, offer a small choice and increase independent time gradually.

How many organised activities should a child do?

There is no fixed number. Balance the child’s interest with cost, travel, rest, family time and unstructured play.

Can toys be bought preloved?

Yes. Check age suitability, condition, missing parts, batteries, cleanliness and recall status before use.